Things that school don't teach
Hey Guys, I hope you are safe at home and healthy. today we are going to talk about the things that a school don't teach us. Now schools may have created scholars but is haven't created successful leaders. real lessons are taught by life. so we are going to check some of the lessons that schools fail to teach and are very important for us to learn. so here we go -
1. Take Responsibility:
Now, we have the habit of throwing responsibility on others when things go to shit. this should not be done. we have to take responsibility. The best selling author Mark Manson have in his book described that the life will be great if we take responsibilities on ourselves. It's like you need to take responsibility of every thing that happen to you even if it's not your fault.I am sure you'll get more experience and will learn more things by doing that. Let me give you an example which was given by a famous speaker : "One day I was going on the road and I met with an accident and I was like shit! why didn't I left my home a little early or late." In this way you need to take responsibility on your own.
2. Make Money:
Well it is for sure that you are not going to make six figure income right after school or college. You need to work hard and hustle for years to get what you want. School is never going to teach you the ways to make money. So also focus on your part time job or your passion or side hustle or one of the 146 other things to make money and then start living on your own terms.
3. You can take job that is below your dignity:
Now many of us have a type of ego not to do any job below our dignity. Trust me and don't fall into that trap. No job is below your level, not when you are just a beginner. You take of examples of any successful person he/she has done jobs below their dignity. You need to get that shit out your head that you can't flip burgers or can't work at a restaurant or something like that. Do something and as early as possible and make a living.
4. No one cares about your Self esteem:
You need to accept that no one will give you what you want in your hands. You need to get out and earn that. No one even cares about your self esteem, you need to get out and earn the goddamn respect on your own. You need to show people that you are worth to make a change or impact on others. So start making something for yourself today itself.
5. Your parents know more then you do:
Now get this thing out of head that you know more about life then your parents. They know a lot more, so always listen to them. In India there is a saying that "If you bow down to your parents, there is no one in the world that can make you down". And it is 100% correct. You should always listen to them and respect them. There are many people who disrespect them and don't listen to them. Those people fail in life very often.
6. Life is not divided into Semesters:
This is correct, life is not divided into semesters. You don't get the summers off and weekends away. There is constant struggle, and you need to be ready for everything. Also you need to learn from failures and see that same mistakes isn't repeated. If you get less marks in a semesters it doesn't matter that much but you need to take care that you didn't prepare less and get less in life. You always have to aim for higher and try to achieve that.
7. Schools have decided winners:
Schools have given the top three best students and decided the winners but life haven't. It is not like that if you are topper in your school with highest marks, you are a winner in life as well. You need to work hard. Most of the time it is like that the people who are good in school are good in life. As they say there is a difference between being intelligent and scoring top in school. So get it through your head you need to be a winner even if you were not in your cute school days.
8. Life is not fair:
Life is not fair but you can do one ting and that is get fucking used to it. You need to stop being a pussy and be a hard ass. There will be many failures, hurdles and things which will stop you from being successful but you need to fight them and overcome them. You need to stop excepting that the things you deserve will come to your hands. You need to get out and earn them. There will be many days when you'll feel to quit and you can quit from the thing you are doing but only in your mind, you need to show up each and every fucking day. You don't have to give the satisfaction of breaking you to life.
So, these were some of the lessons which life teaches us and schools don't....
Learn them understand them and be prepared for the worst....
Take Care,
Yash
Insta - mr.writesalot
1. Take Responsibility:
Now, we have the habit of throwing responsibility on others when things go to shit. this should not be done. we have to take responsibility. The best selling author Mark Manson have in his book described that the life will be great if we take responsibilities on ourselves. It's like you need to take responsibility of every thing that happen to you even if it's not your fault.I am sure you'll get more experience and will learn more things by doing that. Let me give you an example which was given by a famous speaker : "One day I was going on the road and I met with an accident and I was like shit! why didn't I left my home a little early or late." In this way you need to take responsibility on your own.
2. Make Money:
Well it is for sure that you are not going to make six figure income right after school or college. You need to work hard and hustle for years to get what you want. School is never going to teach you the ways to make money. So also focus on your part time job or your passion or side hustle or one of the 146 other things to make money and then start living on your own terms.
3. You can take job that is below your dignity:
Now many of us have a type of ego not to do any job below our dignity. Trust me and don't fall into that trap. No job is below your level, not when you are just a beginner. You take of examples of any successful person he/she has done jobs below their dignity. You need to get that shit out your head that you can't flip burgers or can't work at a restaurant or something like that. Do something and as early as possible and make a living.
4. No one cares about your Self esteem:
You need to accept that no one will give you what you want in your hands. You need to get out and earn that. No one even cares about your self esteem, you need to get out and earn the goddamn respect on your own. You need to show people that you are worth to make a change or impact on others. So start making something for yourself today itself.
5. Your parents know more then you do:
Now get this thing out of head that you know more about life then your parents. They know a lot more, so always listen to them. In India there is a saying that "If you bow down to your parents, there is no one in the world that can make you down". And it is 100% correct. You should always listen to them and respect them. There are many people who disrespect them and don't listen to them. Those people fail in life very often.
6. Life is not divided into Semesters:
This is correct, life is not divided into semesters. You don't get the summers off and weekends away. There is constant struggle, and you need to be ready for everything. Also you need to learn from failures and see that same mistakes isn't repeated. If you get less marks in a semesters it doesn't matter that much but you need to take care that you didn't prepare less and get less in life. You always have to aim for higher and try to achieve that.
7. Schools have decided winners:
Schools have given the top three best students and decided the winners but life haven't. It is not like that if you are topper in your school with highest marks, you are a winner in life as well. You need to work hard. Most of the time it is like that the people who are good in school are good in life. As they say there is a difference between being intelligent and scoring top in school. So get it through your head you need to be a winner even if you were not in your cute school days.
8. Life is not fair:
Life is not fair but you can do one ting and that is get fucking used to it. You need to stop being a pussy and be a hard ass. There will be many failures, hurdles and things which will stop you from being successful but you need to fight them and overcome them. You need to stop excepting that the things you deserve will come to your hands. You need to get out and earn them. There will be many days when you'll feel to quit and you can quit from the thing you are doing but only in your mind, you need to show up each and every fucking day. You don't have to give the satisfaction of breaking you to life.
So, these were some of the lessons which life teaches us and schools don't....
Learn them understand them and be prepared for the worst....
Take Care,
Yash
Insta - mr.writesalot
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